The Crab Mentality! How to stop??🦀🦀

            

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"Most of us are victims of crab mentality"

if you think that people around you are pulling you down, demotivating, demoralizing you and putting stone walls in your success journey. This article is for you.

By name, you will say what is this crab mentality, is it related to crab if it is then what's the relation between the crabby thing and human.

yeah, there is a big relation.

experiment: 

                    put a bunch of crabs in a bucket or barrel and observe what happens? you will see one of the crabs will start to climb the wall and try to get out of it. suddenly another crab will catch up to its leg and start tugging in.

if the crab resists and still tries to get out of the bucket/barrel, the rest of crabs group up and tore that crab's leg apart, and if the crab is still thriving and inspired to get out, the enemy crabs will kill him.

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What is "crab mentality"?

⭐ Crab mentality is to stop a person from achieving his/her task, because :

👹: Either you want to complete that task first

👺: Or you failed in a particular task, so you want the other person to fail as well.

but why do people like that, it is not normal and nobody wants to be tagged as a crab mentalist . 

 here are a few reasons why people are crabby minded

if you are going through these circumstances then stop doing that:

1.Fear of highlighting:

suppose one of your peers scored the highest marks in class.

Everyone will be announcing his/her marks, and this will highlight your inferiority and highlight you as well that you didn't do great in exams.

people with crab mentality feel inferior and become scandal celebrity(means the person will be known and people will think bad about the crab mentalist).

so when someone is achieving, developing or establishing, this highlights your failure, your shortcomings so you decide to stop that person 

"hey this is too much difficult"

"I have tried it hundreds of times it's useless"

"Its a waste of time"  

"I can't do it, so you try something else " and the queue goes on ......
                                              

                                   an informative video on crab mentality

2.Jealously:

it's not directly related but it is, Crab mentalists don't want other people to succeed, thrive, achieve their aims and desired destinies. 

As I mentioned above that this will highlight their shortcomings.

crab mentalists are jealous of others who are getting in their way

And are doing greater work and gaining success.

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3.king of the jungle🦁:

the third and most important reason is that everybody wants to become "king of the jungle", but crab mentalists choose the wrong way of becoming one. They put most of their potential on breaking other's legs metaphorically saying that.

like crabs, people(the carb mentalist) don't break legs, but they break other's spirit, passion, enthusiasm, burning desires, inspiration and all they need to succeed. 

So they can become the "KING OF THE JUNGLE"

🔥 HOW TO GET SAFE:

Now, this is a bigger one.

there are a few tips you can apply in your life to save yourselves from crab mentalists.

1. Change your social circle and stay away from them, because they are going to hurt and you are not going to bear the pain, It is hard to change your surroundings, But for the sake of your success, you have to cross oceans of fires in your life.

2. Don't put an ear on what others are saying about you and your destiny.

3. Believe in yourself.

4. Don't let your passion die.

5. Work hard and survive until the same people tell stories of " how they met you ".

6. People will say that it's hard because they tried, they failed and they gave up and here is the bonus tip

                                                                    "never give up".

be positive and do not get crabby.

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